The Peaceful Parenting Podcast cover image

The Peaceful Parenting Podcast

137: Why Kids Blame and What to Do About It

Jan 17, 2024
20:10

In this episode of the Peaceful Parenting Podcast, we discuss why kids try to blame somebody else, and how they often blame others when they're hurt or upset. We explore reasons why this happens, including the fight, flight, or freeze response and a subconscious attempt to avoid difficult feelings. 

We cover tips to help parents effectively respond when a child blames someone for something. I also talk about my free and upcoming 'Peaceful Parenting Reset' event that helps parents better manage and empathize with their children. 

We talk about:

  • [3:00] Why kids want to blame somebody else

  • [5:48] Anger as a secondary emotion

  • [7:23] What we can do about blame

  • [9:23] Not needing to make everything a teachable moment

  • [12:24] How to respond when our child is blaming us

  • [17:12] Understanding our strong feelings

 

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Connect with Sarah Rosensweet  

 

Get the Snipd
podcast app

Unlock the knowledge in podcasts with the podcast player of the future.
App store bannerPlay store banner

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode

Save any
moment

Hear something you like? Tap your headphones to save it with AI-generated key takeaways

Share
& Export

Send highlights to Twitter, WhatsApp or export them to Notion, Readwise & more

AI-powered
podcast player

Listen to all your favourite podcasts with AI-powered features

Discover
highlights

Listen to the best highlights from the podcasts you love and dive into the full episode