The podcast discusses the dangers of excessive affection towards children, citing examples and observations from history. It emphasizes the importance of moderation in generosity and affection, allowing children to have space and experience the desire for things they don't always have.
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Excessive affection can lead to unintended consequences, as shown by cautionary tales of fathers and their children.
Giving children space to struggle and learn the value of wanting but not always having is essential for their growth and development.
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Be Careful with Excessive Affection
Excessive affection can lead to unintended consequences, as shown by cautionary tales of fathers and their children. F. Scott Fitzgerald and John F. Kennedy suffered from being raised in overly sheltered environments, causing them resentment and missed opportunities. While a parent's intentions may be rooted in love, moderation is crucial in all aspects, including excessive generosity and affection. Giving children space to struggle and learn the value of wanting but not always having is essential for their growth and development.
Maintain Balance and Moderation
It is important to find a balance in parenting, offering love and care without smothering children. Parents should not overdo their generosity and must allow children to experience challenges and setbacks. By striking a balance, parents can help their children learn and grow independently. Moderation is key in all aspects of parenting, showcasing that too much of a good thing can have negative consequences. The key is to provide the right amount of support and guidance without stifling children's independence.
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The Dangers of Excessive Affection and the Importance of Moderation
“You love them. It feels good to get them things. It feels good to spoil them even. Especially if you’re someone who works a lot, who feels guilty about mistakes they’ve made, who carry wounds from their own childhood.”
Ryan discusses the delicate balancing act that you must practice, even when showing your kids affection, on today’s Daily Dad podcast.
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