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Jen Hatmaker on Speaking Out, Breaking Down, and Beginning Again

Oct 20, 2025
Jen Hatmaker, a bestselling author and speaker known for her insights on faith and personal transformation, shares her profound journey of public unraveling. She discusses the heart-wrenching experience of losing her marriage and confronting her past beliefs about racism and LGBTQ+ rights. As she highlights the difference between merely recovering and truly flourishing, Jen emphasizes the importance of authenticity and listening to one's intuition. Her story inspires listeners to embrace renewal and build resilient identities after life's upheavals.
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ANECDOTE

Marriage Moment That Changed Everything

  • Jen Hatmaker woke at 2:30 AM to find her husband voice-texting another woman and that night split her life in two.
  • The next day began a rapid unraveling that led to a shocking divorce and total identity rupture.
INSIGHT

Lives Are Patchworks Of Systems

  • Jen describes life's patchwork of beliefs, institutions, and relationships that together form identity.
  • When one thread unravels, multiple parts of life need renovation, not just a single fix.
ANECDOTE

Catching The Social Media Wave

  • Jen rode the early social media wave, becoming a Christian influencer with rapid audience growth.
  • She lacked mentors on managing parasocial attention and learned in public as the audience scaled.
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