Dating Intentionally 211. How To Flirt (Even If You’re “Bad” At It) w/ Francesca Hogi
Nov 14, 2025
In this enlightening discussion, Francesca Hogi, a love coach and founder of the True Love Society, shares her journey from law to love coaching. She highlights the evolving nature of dating and the importance of unlearning outdated norms. Francesca emphasizes three vital skills: perspective, flirting, and discernment. She defines flirting as intentional actions to create connection and advocates for reducing dependency on dating apps in favor of organic interactions. Plus, she offers practical flirting tactics and encourages listeners to value their dating journeys.
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Flirting As Intentional Connection
- Flirting is how you put your intention for connection into physical action.
- It makes someone feel seen, special, and acknowledged without promising anything more.
Shift Your Perspective
- Adopt perspective: step back, learn from past disappointments, and reduce pressure.
- Treat dating as a journey where each chapter teaches skills for future relationships.
Start With A Curious Question
- Use small, intentional actions like eye contact, sincere compliments, and playful questions to flirt.
- Start conversations with a curious question to make chats interesting and reveal values.
