Will Storr, author of the book Selfie, explores the cultural, evolutionary, and psychological construction of the self. Topics discussed include the power of storytelling in shaping our worldview, the link between personality traits and political beliefs, the debate on parenting and personality, the impact of neoliberalism on identity, the toxicity of social media, and book recommendations.
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The concept of self is shaped by personal traits and cultural factors, influencing how individuals perceive themselves and their place in the world.
Cultural norms and values, combined with individual traits, shape our beliefs and actions, including our political and moral views.
Our tribal nature often leads us to respond with anger or disdain when confronted with differing viewpoints, as they threaten our sense of self and group belonging.
The categorization of groups as in-groups, out-groups, or irrelevant groups can impact our openness to different perspectives and our response to challenging beliefs.
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The Evolution of the Self: From Calvinism to Individualism
Throughout history, the concept of self has evolved and changed depending on cultural and historical contexts. Ancient Greece embraced the idea of the individual as a hustler and self-starter, while the dark ages brought about a Christian notion of humans as wretched beings. In modern times, especially in America, the belief in human potential and the power of the individual has become prominent. This shift in perception has led to an emphasis on self-esteem and the idea that individuals can achieve anything they desire. However, this belief in the goodness of the self can also create challenges when encountering differing viewpoints or group affiliations.
Conflicting Views on the Self: Personal and Cultural Determinants
The concept of self is shaped by both personal and cultural factors. Personal traits, such as openness or extroversion, influence how individuals perceive themselves and their place in the world. However, cultural norms and values also play a significant role in defining the self. Different cultures have varying ideas of what it means to be a good person or a member of a group. These cultural influences, combined with individual traits, shape our beliefs and actions, including our political and moral views.
The Tribal Nature of Beliefs and Reactions
Beliefs and reactions to differing viewpoints can often have a tribal nature. When confronted with ideas that challenge our own, we may respond with anger or disdain because these views threaten our sense of self and group belonging. People seek validation from others and their own group, and when someone questions or rejects the norms of the group, it can be seen as an insult or a challenge to one's own values. This tribalism can impact political discourse and the ability to engage in constructive dialogue with those who hold different perspectives.
Navigating In-Groups, Out-Groups, and Irrelevant Groups
Navigating different groups involves categorizing others as in-groups, out-groups, or irrelevant groups. In-groups are often aligned with our own beliefs and values, while out-groups hold different views and can be perceived as a threat or insult. Irrelevant groups, on the other hand, are seen as inconsequential to our identity and values. The categorization of groups can impact how open we are to different perspectives and how we respond to those who challenge our beliefs.
The Power of Tribal Brains and the Influence of Historical Groups
The podcast explores the idea that our modern reality is still influenced by the neural architecture we evolved when living in tribes. It discusses how these Pleistocene brains perceive the world and how groups of humans are constantly trying to expand their territory, whether it's through religion, nation-building, or corporations. The podcast highlights how outgroups, particularly those that rise in status, can be perceived as a threat, potentially leading to dangerous tribal dynamics.
Neoliberalism and Its Impact on Self Perception
The podcast delves into how neoliberalism, as an economic order, shapes our sense of self. It explains how neoliberalism leverages our desire for status to drive economic growth. However, this ideology can lead to a constant quest for perfection and an unrealistic set of standards for success. It discusses the negative effects of individualism and the pressure to constantly compete and prove oneself in a society that values self-interest above collective well-being.
The Role of Social Media and Technology in Self-Perception
The podcast examines how social media and technology, particularly platforms like Instagram and Twitter, contribute to our self-perception. It explores the impact of curated online personas and the constant comparison with others, leading to feelings of inadequacy and the pressure to present an idealized version of ourselves. It discusses the addictive nature of these platforms and how their design exacerbates tribal conflict and amplifies status-related anxieties.
“To have a self is to feel as if we are, in the words of neuroscientist Professor Chris Frith, the ‘invisible actor at the centre of the world’.” That’s Will Storr, writing in his fantastic book Selfie. Ignore the very of-the-moment title. Storr dives deep into the cultural, evolutionary, and psychological construction of that thing that feels to us like our self, but is not actually ours, and is not a single thing. This is a mind-bending conversation that should, truly, change your understanding of your self. Definitely in the top five EK Show episodes to listen to stoned. ––– Recommended books: You Could Do Something Amazing with Your Life [You Are Raoul Moat] by Andrew Hankinson The Idea of Perfection by Kate Grenville Personality by Daniel Nettle ––– Notes from our sponsors:LEGO: In today's show you heard advertising content from The LEGO Store. With LEGO, every gift has a story. Start your story today at https://LEGO.build/EKS-Pop
