Midlife Transitions: How to Lean in Rather than Resist the ‘Messy Middle’ with Chip Conley

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Jul 23, 2024

Chip Conley, expert in midlife transitions, discusses the importance of navigating midlife transitions with grace and courage. Topics include reimagining love in midlife relationships, emphasizing protein intake for a healthy lifestyle, and ritualizing major life transitions. The podcast explores the transformative chrysalis of midlife and the significance of adopting a growth mindset in navigating life stages.

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Intro

00:00 • 2min

Reimagining Love in Midlife Relationships

02:02 • 14min

Emphasizing Protein Intake and Durable Furniture for a Healthy Lifestyle

16:28 • 2min

Navigating the Multi-Stages of Midlife

18:21 • 14min

Navigating Midlife Transitions and the Importance of Nutrition and Relationships

32:50 • 2min

Ritualizing Major Life Transitions and Finding Courage to Move Forward

34:59 • 3min

Navigating Midlife Transitions and Aging Perspectives

38:06 • 13min

Exploring Midlife Transitions and Relationship Content

50:55 • 4min

When it comes to life stages, “midlife” often gets the short end of the stick. We speak about adolescence and retirement as vistas rich with opportunity and possibility while we joke about midlife and its related crises. However, when we adopt an affectionate perspective, opportunity and joy prove to be just as possible in this “messy middle” stage.

Many transitions take place over the decades following age 50. These milestones are no less impactful than those we celebrate, such as graduation and marriage, and yet most of us lack rituals to mark these evolutions and help us build communities of support in this time of great potential.

Chip Conley was a disruptive force in the hospitality industry for decades. In 2018, he combined his experiences mentoring at Airbnb with his own midlife transition to launch the Modern Elder Academy (MEA). Today, the world's first “midlife wisdom school” offers luxurious, personal growth retreats in Baja California and New Mexico. Chip is also the author of seven books, including his most recent, Learning to Love Midlife.

In December 2024, Dr. Alexandra will be at the Santa Fe ranch location of MEA leading a 5-day retreat for couples centered on healing the past, deepening connection, and creating a relational vision for the future. You can attend with your partner or on your own. To learn more about the retreat, Loving You Without Losing Me: A Retreat for Couples, visit the website and schedule a free consultation call with the MEA admissions team.

Whether you are approaching midlife, are in the midst of it, or if midlife is in your rearview mirror, Chip’s affectionate and curious approach to this often overlooked and undervalued stage will illuminate new outlooks and possibilities for how we lean into life’s transitions.

Relevant Links:

Read Chip’s latest book Learning to Love Midlife
Learn more about Chip and get his free Anatomy of a Transition resource on his website
Learn more about Dr. Alexandra’s December 2024 retreat at MEA
Order Dr. Alexandra's new book, Love Every Day
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