The Dr. John Delony Show I Thought Marriage Would Fix My Lust Problem . . . It Didn’t
Jul 29, 2024
A man grapples with lustful thoughts and their impact on his marriage, seeking guidance on intimacy and connection. Couples navigate career changes and the importance of support and communication during transitions. The struggle to balance work-life commitments and family time takes center stage, emphasizing the need for strategic planning. Honest dialogue is highlighted as essential for emotional healing, particularly for men, while addressing mental loads and the effects of ADHD in relationships adds depth to the discussion.
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Own Attraction To Build Intimacy
- Own your attraction to others and the fantasies you entertain outside your marriage.
- Cultivate honest intimacy with your wife without secrecy to strengthen your connection and reduce lustful distractions.
Cultivate Desire Through Playfulness
- Cultivate desire in marriage with playful, curious communication about fantasies and preferences.
- Use tools like the erotic envelope system to explore intimacy and break secretive patterns.
Read To Improve Sexual Intimacy
- Read the book 'Come As You Are' together to better understand female sexuality and open communication.
- Stop viewing pornography use as a small victory; commit to stopping it to foster marital intimacy.