Now We're Getting Somewhere 61: "Because I want to" is a reason (and might be the *best* reason)
Aug 6, 2025
Explore the transformative power of understanding your true desires with the phrase 'because I want to.' The conversation highlights how intrinsic motivations can guide decision-making and promote confidence in life choices. Personal and client stories illustrate the journey of discovering deeper wants. Plus, a mini FAQ addresses common obstacles like finding your 'because I want to.' This insightful discussion aims to inspire clarity and courage in pursuing what truly resonates with you.
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"Because I Want To" Anchors Clarity
- "Because I want to" is a valid and powerful reason for making decisions.
- It can anchor clarity and cut through confusion when figuring out what you truly want.
Two Levels of "Because I Want To"
- There are two levels of "because I want to": a surface, impulsive level and a deeper, gut-level desire.
- The deeper "because I want to" provides important directional information beyond just immediate cravings.
Client Finds Gut Decision
- A client struggled to decide about switching jobs due to many reasons.
- Her true because-I-want-to blurt was that she didn’t want to leave her current job right now, which clarified her decision.