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Gay Men Going Deeper
Why Can’t I Stay Hard? Diving into the Psychology of Erectile Dysfunction
Mar 13, 2025
In this conversation, men's coach Shay Doran delves into the psychological dimensions of erectile dysfunction, particularly among gay men. He reveals that societal stigma can exacerbate performance anxiety and feelings of isolation. The discussion highlights key factors, such as perfectionism, the impact of casual encounters, and the journey toward self-acceptance. Shay also emphasizes the importance of emotional connections in sexual experiences, advocating for vulnerability over mere performance. Listeners gain insights into overcoming shame and fostering intimacy.
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- Gay men face unique challenges with erectile dysfunction, often influenced by societal pressures, performance anxiety, and historical experiences of shame.
- The impact of contemporary sexual culture, particularly pornography, can foster unrealistic expectations that contribute to performance anxiety and self-doubt.
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Prevalence of Erectile Dysfunction in Gay Men
Research indicates that gay men experience erectile dysfunction at a higher rate than heterosexual men. This statistic sheds light on a significant issue that often remains unspoken within the community due to fear of shame and embarrassment. Many gay men grapple with feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt about their sexual performance, which can further exacerbate anxiety surrounding intimacy. Addressing this stigma is vital to encouraging open dialogue and fostering a supportive environment where individuals can share their struggles and seek help.
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