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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Rewind) Why Did They Stop Chasing You?

Apr 5, 2024
12:41
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The podcast discusses pitfalls in early dating dynamics, the necessity of mutual vulnerability for relationship growth, and how self-perception influences dating outcomes. It explores expressing insecurities altering perceptions and the impact of self-sabotaging behaviors on dating dynamics.
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Quick takeaways

  • Expressing surprise when someone shows interest can undermine desire by implying the other person is of higher value.
  • Constantly expressing fear of being hurt can create a victim mentality and lead to imbalance in relationships.

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Mistake 1: Expressing Surprise of Interest

Expressing surprise when someone shows interest can send a message that the person is of higher value. This attitude risks undermining desire as it implies the other person is getting the short end of the deal. By conveying surprise, we unintentionally diminish our own value, potentially stunting the development of desire in the early stages of dating.

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