Jennifer B. Wallace, an award-winning journalist and author of "Never Enough," dives into the pervasive issue of toxic achievement culture in parenting and education. She highlights the economic pressures families face and discusses the importance of helping children feel valued beyond their accomplishments. Wallace emphasizes the differing emotional challenges boys and girls encounter and advocates for redefining success, focusing on resilience and relationships. The impact of social media on self-worth is also critiqued, calling for a cultural shift in values and parenting approaches.
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High Achievers at Risk
High-achieving students are at higher risk for mental health issues.
These students experience clinical levels of depression, anxiety, and substance abuse.
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Shifting Parenting Focus
Scott Galloway shifted his parenting style from focusing on grades to prioritizing his children's happiness.
He found that while his children's academic performance might not be as high, their well-being improved.
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Focus on Mattering
Focus on "mattering," making children feel valued for who they are.
Give children meaningful responsibilities to contribute to their families and communities.
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In *Never Enough*, Judith Grisel draws on her personal journey as a recovering addict and her extensive research as a neuroscientist to reveal the intricate science behind addiction. The book delves into how drugs affect the brain, the changes that occur with chronic use, and the hidden personality traits that addiction can expose. Grisel emphasizes that the 'cure' for addiction may not lie in individual brains but in how we interact with our communities. The book offers a compassionate and clear look at the roles drugs play in our lives and provides new insights into solving the epidemic of addiction.
The Meritocracy Trap
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In *The Meritocracy Trap*, Daniel Markovits argues that meritocracy, rather than being a virtuous and efficient system, has become the single greatest obstacle to equal opportunities in America. The book exposes how meritocracy breeds inequality, ensnares even those at the top in intense work regimes, and prevents social mobility. Markovits, drawing from his extensive experience at elite universities, provides a comprehensive critique of the meritocratic system, highlighting its corrosive effects on both the middle class and the elite. He also discusses the need for a new perspective that moves beyond the current meritocratic narrative to achieve a more equitable society.
Jennifer Breheny Wallace, an award-winning journalist and author of, “Never Enough: When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic – and What We Can Do About It,” joins Scott to discuss solutions to toxic achievement culture, economic pressures on families, instilling a sense of ‘mattering’ in children, and how gender influences children’s sense of interdependence.