Conversations with Dr. Jennifer
Masculinity and Sexual Shame
Jan 16, 2024
Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Tammy Hill of the Live Your Why Podcast to discuss masculinity, sexual shame, performance anxiety, desire discrepancies, masturbation and pornography, erectile dysfunction, being tolerated vs. being received sexually, and creating more intimate relationships.
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- Masculine sexual shame is a significant but often overlooked issue that men struggle with, even if they appear as the higher desire partner in a relationship.
- Shame around sexuality can greatly impact relationships, leading to withdrawal, resentment, and feelings of inadequacy, but open communication and understanding can create a safe space for exploration and growth.
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Understanding Masculine Sexual Shame
Masculine sexual shame is a topic that has been overlooked in the past, but is increasingly recognized as an important issue for men. Men may struggle with their sexuality even if they appear as the higher desire partner in a relationship. Men often feel pressured to act as if they are comfortable with their sexuality, while still harboring doubts and insecurities. The fear of being seen as predatory or destructive with their sexuality can lead to guilt and shame. The societal expectation for men to be dominant and in control can also contribute to feelings of shame. By creating safe and open environments for men to explore and discuss their sexuality, we can reduce shame and promote healthier relationships.
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