On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with M’kali-Hashiki. M’kali-Hashiki is a Somatic Sacred Storyteller & Erotic Ritualist. She holds certifications in Sexological Bodywork; Sound, Voice, & Music Healing; and Tantric Sacred Intimacy. As a Somatic Sacred Storyteller, she helps you uncover the stories your body is holding onto, jettisoning the ones poisoning you, and helping you to reframe & retell the ones left. As an Erotic Ritualist she designs journeys for you to commune with The Divine using your physical pleasure as the conduit of communication. Her Divine Purpose is helping folx heal their erotic wounds so they can have the joyous & juicy life that is their Divine Birthright and move further along in their path to individual & collective liberation. Her site FiercePassions is a Somatic Cyber Temple offering community journeys, rituals, individual coaching, instructional videos, private sessions for couples/triads, and guided visualizations to help us survive & thrive during these chaotic times. In her nomadic travels across North & Central America, she teaches at colleges & universities, conferences, and the occasional adult toy store or educational center. She offers sexuality training & employee wellness/team building skills to organizations & companies. She is also a skilled Sensitivity Reader hired to read manuscripts to make sure they avoid explicit & implicit systemic bias. Her lived experiences as a fat, Black, queer, femme, trauma-survivor inform every aspect of her work. The two of us talk about the sacredness of the anus and the healing and pleasure that can be explored by incorporating anal play, particular anal massage, into our life. We also discuss breathwork and how breathing can be a tool to expand our eroticism.

Key points:

• M’kali-Hashiki introduces herself
• Sexual politics and pleasure
• Pleasure-negative childhood stories
• Resistance to sexual exploration
• Anal massage and play
• Anal breathing
• Breathwork as a tool
• Erotic breathwork practices

Relevant links:

M’kali-Hashiki’s website: www.FiercePassions.com

M’kali-Hashiki’s Instagram: @fierce_passions