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How Not To Suck At Divorce

141. What You Need to Know about Your Divorce Custody Agreement Before You Sign

Feb 19, 2025
51:20

In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, we dive deep into the dreaded parenting plans (also called custody agreements, parenting schedules, or allocation judgments). They break down what really matters in these complex documents, from decision-making on medical care and extracurricular activities to holiday schedules and the right of first refusal.

Andrea shares her personal struggles with her own parenting agreement and offers tips on how you can avoid the mistakes she made. Morgan provides expert legal insight on how to negotiate a fair agreement that works for both parents and their kids.

What You’ll Learn:

  • The key components of a parenting plan: decision-making, holidays, medical care, and more.
  • Why you need to be proactive and think about how decisions today will impact your future.
  • How to work with your lawyer to create a flexible and fair plan for you and your kids.
  • The importance of compassionate communication and why it's key when negotiating with your ex.
  • Pro tips on how to handle tricky situations like school choice, summer camps, and the right of first refusal.

Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course

Our Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck


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Instagram: @hownotosuckatdivorce

Follow Andrea: @theandrearappaport

Follow Morgan: @divorceattorneychicago

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