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The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast

Episode 194: Self-Differentiation Requires Emotional Courage

Sep 26, 2022
12:21
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The podcast discusses the concept of clumpiness, where people hide in groups instead of self-differentiating. It explores the impact of clumpiness on self-definition and emotional courage. The importance of self-expression and emotional connection in relationships and groups is emphasized.
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Quick takeaways

  • Clumpiness in relationships often stems from a fear of vulnerability and a reliance on the group to avoid self-definition.
  • Cultivating emotional courage involves prioritizing self-definition, individual interactions, and balancing self-differentiation with emotional connection.

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The Concept of Clumpiness

Clumpiness, as described by Dr. Kathleen Smith, refers to a togetherness characterized by using the group to avoid vulnerability and self-definition. This is often evident through using the term 'we' instead of 'I' in communication, signing letters or emails from the whole group instead of individually, and seeking safety in numbers. Clumpiness hinders self-definition and takes away the emotional courage required for expressing one's goals, values, and beliefs independently.

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