Death, Sex & Money Tig Notaro's Documentary About Her Friend's Death Is Also Really Funny
Nov 18, 2025
Tig Notaro, an acclaimed comedian and filmmaker, shares her journey creating the documentary 'Come See Me in the Good Light' about poet Andrea Gibson, who battled ovarian cancer. Tig reveals how their creative connection blossomed and the deepening of friendship amid grief. She humorously recounts the Sundance experience in their cozy 'Snuggle Down' Airbnb. They discuss finding laughter in dark moments and the poignant decision-making around Andrea's final days, capturing the blend of heartbreak and humor that defined their relationship.
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First Meeting Felt Like Meeting A Rock Star
- Tig first met Andrea at a Vox Feminista show and immediately thought they were a rock star.
- Andrea's stage presence and tattoos made Tig feel an instant creative kinship.
A Song Captured End-Of-Life Urgency
- After Tig's cancer, she, Andrea, and Patrice Pike recorded an unreleased song about urgency called "How About Right Now."
- Tig later realized the song eerily reflected Andrea's final months.
Make Tough Films By Controlling The Process
- Tig recognized Andrea's life as a ready documentary subject and immediately mobilized filmmakers.
- The team prioritized independent fundraising to protect the film's intimate tone.
