

Dear LK: My parents pay my tuition. Do I have to show them my grades?
13 snips May 4, 2023
In this insightful discussion, Berna Anat, a financial hype woman and author of Money Out Loud, tackles the tricky dynamics of parental financial support in college. She explores whether parents have a right to access their children's grades. Berna emphasizes the importance of setting clear financial boundaries and maintaining open communication about expectations. The conversation also touches on the emotional challenges students face as they navigate the desire for independence amidst family pressures, all while advocating for self-compassion and mindful practices.
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Financial Guilt-Tripping
- Berna Anat shares her personal experience with financial guilt-tripping.
- As the youngest daughter without children, she feels pressure to be the future caretaker of her parents.
Define Expectations Upfront
- Define financial expectations with family before starting college.
- Discuss what "growth" means to both parties and the parents' desired return on investment.
The Sandwich Method
- Approach difficult conversations like a sandwich: positive, issue, positive.
- Express gratitude, state your goals, reiterate love and understanding.