

Herpes Cheating, Israeli Expats, and Firing Political Clients
Sep 24, 2025
Join the hosts as they tackle fascinating topics, from Rebecca’s grim encounter with a maggot-infested compost to the complexities of trust in relationships regarding herpes. They delve into the stigma surrounding STIs, discussing how to normalize sexual health. A listener shares their struggles as an Israeli expat during the Gaza War, prompting advice on finding community. They also explore the ethical dilemmas therapists face when dealing with politically charged clients. The episode blends humor, psychology, and real-life challenges.
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Maggots And Mystery In The Compost Bin
- Rebecca found many cans of wet dog food (or worse) dumped unbagged in her curbside compost, which filled the block with a horrific smell.
- She covered the bin with mulch to mask the odor and worried about maggots and pickup logistics until the city crew could handle it.
Educate Rather Than Accuse About Herpes
- Explain herpes facts calmly: it can lie dormant, is common, and transmits non-sexually in many cases.
- Offer education and testing options, and ask if he will learn rather than accuse.
Misinformation Feeds Relationship Paranoia
- Kirk links mistrust about STIs to online misogynistic subcultures that amplify fears and conspiracy thinking.
- Those echo chambers can make partners interpret medical facts as evidence of cheating.