Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

161: How Do I Get my Teens to Want to Spend Time with Me?

Mar 12, 2024

Dr. Lisa discusses the challenges of bonding with teenage children, understanding teenage independence, and fostering meaningful family time. The episode explores the delicate balance between teen independence and family dynamics, providing insights for parents on navigating adolescence with teenagers.

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Introduction

00:00 • 2min

Navigating the Challenge of Bonding with Teenage Children

02:15 • 3min

Understanding Teenage Independence

05:12 • 5min

Fostering Meaningful Family Time with Teens and Building Lasting Connections

10:16 • 4min

Navigating Teen Independence and Family Dynamics

13:47 • 13min

Navigating Adolescence with Teenagers: Insights for Parents

26:25 • 3min

A concerned parent seeks Dr. Lisa's guidance on building and maintaining a connection with her teenage son. Despite efforts to spend quality time together, most family activities are met with resistance. The parent wonders if it’s normal for her 15-year-old son and, more recently, her 11-year-old daughter, to hold their parents at a distance. Dr. Lisa and Reena explore the challenges of enforcing family time and suggest alternative approaches that can work. The episode answers several key questions, including: Is having dinner together sufficient to strengthen family bonds? How do parents foster connection during the turbulent teen years? And when it is time to worry about a teen’s reluctance to spend time with the family?

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday.

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