Jess & Gabe on Trying for Baby #2, Birth in Australia & Becoming an American Citizen
Nov 29, 2023
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Jess and Gabe discuss their experiences with birth in Australia, Jess becoming an American citizen, and their plans for Baby #2. They also talk about starting a YouTube channel, the challenges of immigration, and their love for Nashville. The speakers also touch on cultural differences, challenges of parenthood, and their desire to have another child.
Giving birth in Australia is free and supported by a midwife program, but partners may not be allowed to stay overnight at the hospital.
Growing up homeschooled provided the flexibility for various activities and a tight-knit community.
Americans and Australians have unique cultural differences and stereotypes, but Jess and Gabe appreciate the best of both worlds.
Deep dives
The experience of giving birth in Australia
In the podcast episode, Jess and Gabrielle discuss the experience of giving birth in Australia. They mention that one of the main differences is that healthcare in Australia is free, so they didn't have to pay for the childbirth itself. They also talk about their midwife program and how they had an incredible experience throughout the process. However, they mention that Gabe was not allowed to stay the night at the hospital after the birth, which was challenging for Jess. Overall, they highlight the positives of giving birth in Australia, such as the supportive healthcare system and the close proximity to family.
Growing up homeschooled and the unique experience
Jess and Gabe talk about their experience growing up homeschooled. They mention that they were part of a co-op and theater group, which allowed them to have a flexible schedule and participate in various activities. They emphasize the benefits of managing their own time and having the opportunity to participate in both sports and theater. They reflect on the tight-knit community they formed with other homeschoolers and how that shaped their social lives. They also mention that Nashville, where they currently live, has a vibrant homeschool community, which makes it a great place for them to raise their daughter in the same educational environment.
Comparing American and Australian culture
During the podcast episode, Jess and Gabe discuss the differences between American and Australian culture. They mention that Americans can be perceived as very American, while Australians are known for being laid-back and friendly. They laugh about the stereotypes they encounter, such as Australians being asked about kangaroos and spiders, and Americans assuming everyone celebrates Thanksgiving. They also touch on the language variations, such as the different names for fast food chains in each country. Overall, they appreciate the unique aspects of both cultures and feel blessed to have experienced life in both countries.
Future plans and staying in Nashville
Jess and Gabe express their contentment with living in Nashville and their current plans for the future. They mention that they have no intention of moving back to Florida or Australia at the moment. Jess expresses her love for Nashville and how it has become home for them. However, they leave open the possibility of visiting Australia more frequently when their children are older and consider the idea of getting a holiday house there. They also mention the strong homeschool community in Nashville and how it aligns well with their upbringing and parenting style.
Challenges of the newborn phase
Adjusting to the newborn phase, the couple faced challenges in terms of their routine and intimacy. Sleep deprivation and the need to adapt to a new schedule posed difficulties. The husband struggled with finding ways to support his breastfeeding wife and determining when he could take time for himself, like going to the gym. The couple had to scrap their previous schedule and adapt to the ever-changing demands of their newborn, leading to sleep regressions and constant adjustments.
The impact on mental health
The wife experienced a difficult postpartum period, coping with hormonal fluctuations, breastfeeding challenges, and emotional turmoil. However, overall, becoming a mother gave her a sense of purpose and confidence. She felt assured of her abilities as a mother and took pride in seeing her own traits in her child. The husband also found a newfound purpose in being a parent, feeling the importance of his role and the value he brings as a father. The couple recognized the significance of selflessness in finding purpose and fulfillment in raising a child.
Jess & Gabe joined us this week on the Unplanned Podcast!! We talked about their experience having a birth in Australia, Jess becoming an American citizen, and their plans for Baby #2...
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