

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Matt & Abby
“Unplanned” dives into genuine conversations surrounding relationships & family. The show is hosted by high school sweethearts Matt and Abby Howard, who live in Phoenix, AZ with their two boys.
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Sep 3, 2025 • 1h 2min
The debt trap, combining finances & why you shouldn’t rent w/ Rachel Cruze
Rachel Cruze, best-selling author and daughter of Dave Ramsey, joins Matt & Abby to spill money tips every couple needs to hear. From combining finances and crushing debt to car payments, renting, and teaching kids about money, this episode is packed with practical advice you can use today.
This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp, Google Gemini, Nutrafol & Hiya.
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Chapters:
00:00 - Rachel Cruze
02:27 - How Dave Ramsey raised his kids
04:47 - What it's like to have Dave Ramsey as a father
06:40 - Asking my husband to get rid of his credit card
11:56 - Why married couples should combine finances
15:47 - Why married couples shouldn't combine finances
17:30 - What you should do if your spouses spending is out of control
22:51 - The number one thing keeping you broke
26:16 - The car payment trap explained
40:49 - How to have a money conversation with your kid
45:52 - How Dave Ramsey recommends you buy a house
49:08 - Why you shouldn't rent a home
53:38 - Why Dave Ramsey's formula to getting rich works
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Aug 27, 2025 • 1h 27min
We’re all pregnant, birth confessions & why you need your mom postpartum
Abby, Abigail, and Addy are all pregnant at the same time - and there's a lot to talk about. From which trimester has been the hardest, to what it's really like sharing pregnancy news for the third time, to the moments that make them laugh (and cry) most. They spill birth stories, talk VBACs, and share why having their mom around postpartum is non-negotiable.
This episode is sponsored by Nutrafol, Hiya & BetterHelp
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Chapters:
00:00 - WE’RE ALL PREGNANT
04:20 - Should you video your birth?
07:49 - Which trimester is the worst?
18:28 - Telling people you're pregnant a 3rd time
23:25 - The first time I heard my mom call herself "grandma”
26:19 - What happens when you put 3 pregnant people together
31:43 - The most unhinged thing I've heard this week
42:28 - Going for a VBAC
46:28 - Dealing with birth disappointment
56:14 - My 3-year-old understands his baby cousin
1:13:23 - My dad didn't want me taking oxycodone
1:18:08 - The hardest part of postpartum
1:20:43 - Why you need your mom postpartum
1:24:31 - My brother is a girl dad Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 20, 2025 • 55min
Finding out we're pregnant with baby no. 3 & telling our family
We’re pregnant with baby no.3!!! In this episode, we talk about the pregnancy scare before trying, the moment we found out, and how we told our families. We also open up about fears of miscarriage, how this pregnancy feels different, and the reality of being in the first trimester while raising toddlers.
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Chapters:
00:00 - WE’RE PREGNANT
02:40 - Experiencing a pregnancy scare
07:05 - Trying for baby #3
13:40 - Finding out we're pregnant with baby #3
18:53 - Telling my parents we're pregnant
24:05 - My fear of miscarriage
28:21 - I thought I lost the baby
35:33 - Why my 3rd pregnancy is different
41:31 - Why I don't want to wait to find out the gender
42:31 - Surprising my parents with baby #3
46:38 - The reality of being in the first trimester with toddlers
47:44 - When a pregnancy craving hits you mid podcast
52:28 - Deciding on our third babies name Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 13, 2025 • 1h 6min
Breaking up, The Bachelor & growing up billionaire w/ Madi Prewett Troutt
Madi Prewett Troutt and her husband, Grant Troutt, join Matt & Abby to share their whirlwind love story—from meeting on a blind date to their three-month engagement. They address rumours about the cost of their wedding, talk about becoming parents, and reflect on what Grant learned growing up with his father being a billionaire. Madi opens up about their breakup, why she kept her pregnancy a secret at first, and Grant shares why he refuses to watch The Bachelor.
This episode is sponsored by Cash App, Nutrafol and BetterHelp.
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Chapters:
00:00 - Madi Prewett Troutt
01:03 - Being new parents
11:17 - Taking care of a newborn
16:20 - Why we were shocked when we got pregnant
17:28 - Why I didn't tell my husband I was pregnant
24:14 - When you don't know what a blind date is
29:53 - What my dad learned after becoming a billionaire
40:44 - Addressing misconceptions about my wedding
51:26 - Why I refuse to watch the Bachelor
54:33 - Breaking up with Madi
56:30 - Introducing my ex-boyfriend to my family
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Aug 6, 2025 • 1h 2min
TikTok Couple: Our break up & birth story w/ the Quist Family (Courtney and Alex)
TikTok creators Courtney and Alex (better known as The Quist Family) join Matt & Abby to share the full story behind their relationship. From dating multiple people at once to breaking up before eventually getting married. They also talk through the highs and lows of pregnancy, including Courtney's fear of being induced at 42 weeks, gaining just 8 pounds, and what life looks like now as new parents.
This episode is sponsored by Audible, Magic Spoon & Zocdoc.
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Chapters:
00:00 - The Quist Family
01:21 - Breaking up with my future husband
03:40 - Dating multiple guys at once
12:54 - What I learned from going through a break up
17:31 - Defining our relationship
21:07 - Getting out of the friend zone
36:33 - Why I was terrified to give birth
40:12 - Getting induced at 42 weeks
47:47 - How I only gained 8 lbs while pregnant
54:05 - Being a father to a newborn
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Jul 30, 2025 • 1h 4min
Parenting hot takes w/ Alex Bennett & Harrison Fugman
Matt & Abby are joined by Alex Bennett and her partner Harrison Fugman to unpack some of the internet’s spiciest parenting hot takes. From baby piercings and gender reveals to iPads at restaurants, swearing, and sleep training—they dive into the debates, share their personal takes, and compare experiences as new parents.
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Jul 23, 2025 • 55min
Am I the problem? *relationship edition*
Matt & Abby are back with more wild Reddit relationship dilemmas—this time, from the “Am I the Problem?” corner of the internet. From in-law drama and awkward divorces to a pre-wedding breakup, they weigh in on the most jaw-dropping stories Reddit has to offer.
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Jul 16, 2025 • 1h 11min
Baby #3, trying for a girl, and getting a hair transplant
In this episode, we share why Matt’s changed his mind about baby number three. We also talk about the Shettles Method, a theory on how to increase your chances of having a girl. Matt opens up about his upcoming hair transplant, we celebrate our sixth wedding anniversary and give some fun life updates.
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14 snips
Jul 9, 2025 • 1h 18min
Living alone, working a job, and season 4 of Love on the Spectrum with Tanner, Midge (sister) & Nicci (mom)
Tanner Smith, a cheerful reality TV star from *Love on the Spectrum*, joins his sister Midge and mom Nicci for an engaging chat. They discuss living alone and the challenges Tanner faces, including his discomfort with marriage. The trio shares heartfelt stories about sibling protectiveness and the bond of family. Tanner also opens up about his transformative journey at the Clemson Life Program, fostering independence and growth. With humor and nostalgia, they dive into favorite childhood memories and future adventures, including Halloween plans and their shared love for amusement parks.

Jul 2, 2025 • 1h 2min
Abuse On Set, Drake & Josh, and Fatherhood w/ Drake Bell
Drake Bell, best known for his role in Drake & Josh, reflects on his tumultuous journey from child stardom to fatherhood. He candidly discusses his struggles with financial instability, including not receiving residuals from his iconic show. Drake opens up about surviving abuse at 15 and the misconceptions surrounding the entertainment industry, shedding light on the support systems he found essential. He also shares insights on songwriting as a therapeutic outlet during challenging times, blending personal storytelling with his creative process.