Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi 203. “He makes 3x more, but wants to split everything 50/50”
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Apr 8, 2025 Katie and Robin grapple with the implications of their different incomes, leading to discussions about fairness in financial responsibilities. As Robin invests significantly while Katie hides her spending, trust issues emerge. They explore the emotional toll of financial secrecy and how it affects their relationship. The conversation shifts to the potential need for a prenup and Katie's future after grad school. Ultimately, they aim to find a balance that fosters transparency, generosity, and a shared financial vision.
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The Ski Trip
- Katie booked a $6,000 ski trip for Robin's birthday, despite not having the funds.
- She planned to pay it off before he found out, but got sick, resulting in credit card debt and stress.
The Facial
- Katie got a $200 facial, despite Robin advising against it, and lied about her location.
- Robin discovered the lie through location sharing on their phones, revealing underlying financial disconnect.
Financial Revenge Sleep
- Katie's actions resemble "revenge sleep," seeking control through spending despite negative consequences.
- Lying about finances, especially in intimate relationships, severely damages trust, regardless of the amount.