Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark Is It Discipline or Abuse? The Spanking Debate with Doug Wilson
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Dec 30, 2025 
Pastor Doug Wilson, a longtime pastor and author focusing on Christian family life, dives into the controversial topic of parental discipline. He addresses the meaning of biblical correction, explaining how loving discipline can foster obedience in children. Doug argues against the notion of discipline as abuse, advocating for a balanced approach that incorporates guidance, prayer, and spiritual growth. He emphasizes the importance of parenting methods rooted in Scripture, while tackling the challenges of modern parenting trends.
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Refusing Discipline Harms Children
- Doug Wilson argues that refusing to discipline a child is effectively a form of hating or disowning them because it harms their future prospects.
- He says pampering destroys children by preventing them from learning to stand on their own feet.
Establish Authority Early
- Use consistent, age-appropriate correction early, then phase it out as the child internalizes standards by adolescence.
- Establish authority while kids are young so you can remove restrictions later with trust.
Discipline Without Anger
- Discipline calmly and without anger; if you're angry, pause and wait until you can restore a spirit of gentleness.
- Hold children after correction and pray so fellowship is restored.
