#40 Squirting, Pegging and Sexual Pressure (with Lola Jean)

On episode 40 of the #mensexpleasure podcast I chat with Lola Jean. Lola is a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. Lola offers a variety of classes and talks to help people have better sex with themselves and each other like Pegging, Squirting, and Libido Awakening. A variety of paid and free options of classes and talks, plus a podcast with The Reluctant Sexpert: ‘Is Our Love ___?’, there are a variety of options to indulge. Lola and I talked about squirting, pegging, rimming, and broadening your definition of sex. We also spoke about the pressure both men and women feel to perform sex a certain way.

Key Points:

- Lola shares about her no-nonsense approach to sex education

- Sexualization vs objectification vs fetishization

- Sexual pressures and expectations

- Faking orgasms for men’s ego

- You’re not responsible for your partner’s pleasure

- Can every woman squirt? Is squirting pee?

- Squirting and orgasm are two seperate things

- Not all women enjoy squirting

- Pegging, anal penetration and submission

- Broadening your definition of sex

Relevant links:

Lola’s Instagram: @lolajeandotcom

Lola’s Website: https://lolajean.com/