True Freedom EPISODE 5: Why Men Won't Do The Work
May 26, 2024
The discussion dives into why men often shy away from personal development, emphasizing cultural pressures like tall poppy syndrome. It highlights the disconnect between values and behaviors, urging men to confront their fears and seek support. The hosts explore the importance of vulnerability in personal growth, community involvement, and how self-investment positively impacts relationships. They also stress the need for safe spaces that encourage honest conversations about masculinity and emotional well-being.
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
Seeking Help: Weakness vs. Growth
- Men seek help in sports or hobbies without hesitation.
- But they view seeking help for personal growth as admitting weakness, especially in the UK and Australia.
Cultural Barriers to Men's Growth
- In the UK and Australia, there's a cultural stigma around men seeking help, associating it with weakness.
- This is compounded by "tall poppy syndrome," where successful individuals are often pulled down.
Resistance, Values, and Behavior Change
- Resistance to change stems from fear of losing control, amplified by our current high-stress, cortisol-filled lives.
- Behavior is driven by subconscious values, and many men don't prioritize personal growth.
