Shameless Popery #234 Should You Lie to Your Kids About Santa?
Dec 16, 2025
The discussion tackles the controversial issue of whether parents should lie to their kids about Santa Claus. Joe argues that lying is inherently wrong, drawing on Scripture and the Catechism. He delves into how myths about Santa can affect children's belief in deeper truths, like God. The conversation distinguishes between pretend play and deceit, explaining how children can enjoy make-believe without confusion. Joe contrasts today's commercial Santa with the true spirit of Advent, encouraging a focus on the real meaning of Christmas.
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Mixing Santa With Gospel Harms Faith
- Mixing lies about Santa with teaching about Jesus risks confusing children about truth and faith.
- Joe warns that presenting both together can cause children to reject the whole religious message.
Lying Versus Pretend: The Moral Line
- Lying requires both falsehood and intent to deceive, which distinguishes it from pretend play.
- Joe uses the Catechism and Augustine's definition to clarify the moral difference.
Be Honest When Kids Ask Directly
- Treat fairy tales and Santa as make-believe and be honest if a child asks whether it's literally true.
- Say no when kids ask if a story really happened to avoid intentional deception.