192: Live Call Q&A: Date Again After Divorce? "I'm Not Attracted to My Wife" & Unity in Church

In this BraveCo live Q&A, I sit down with a few brave men who ask the questions most guys keep to themselves. We talk about what it really looks like to lead as a single dad, how to know if you are actually ready to date again after divorce, and how to invite someone into your family without sacrificing your kids in the process. I share my own story of betrayal, navigating divorce and eventually blending a family, and the difference between simply “moving on” and truly “moving forward.”

We also dive into one of the most vulnerable questions a husband can ask: “What do I do when I am not as attracted to my wife after kids?” Together we unpack how bodies change, how life stress and kids affect desire, and why emotional and spiritual connection are often the real drivers of attraction in a long term marriage. I give practical ways to pursue your wife’s heart again, rebuild connection, and invite her into a health journey without shaming her or shutting down.

Finally, we talk about unity in the Church and how to bring pastors and leaders together across denominations for prayer and real relationship. I share how I think about influence, trust and momentum, and give some simple steps to start gathering leaders in your city without it becoming weird, political or divisive. If you are a man who wants to lead your family well, love your wife deeply and stand for your city with other believers, this conversation will speak directly to you.

Chapters:
00:00 Welcome to the BraveCo live Q&A for men
00:40 Single dad Tommy shares his story of divorce and dating again
02:15 Are you actually ready to date again after a painful divorce
05:10 Letting your kids set the pace of your new relationship
09:10 Who comes first, kids or girlfriend, before and after marriage
10:40 Noah opens up about losing attraction to his wife after kids
13:40 Rebuilding emotional and spiritual connection when bodies change
18:20 Going on a health and fitness journey together as a couple
20:40 Jordan asks how to unite pastors and churches in his city
24:40 Practical steps for cross denominational unity and BraveCo next steps

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