Discover the power of modeling behavior in parenting and how it shapes children's actions. Explore the technique of gently questioning kids about their misbehavior and understanding its roots. The discussion highlights the impact of self-reflection and leading by example, encouraging a more compassionate family dynamic. Learn how to foster kindness and understanding, making parenting a more rewarding experience for both parents and children.
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Question Misbehavior
Observe your children's actions and words carefully.
Respectfully inquire where they learned those behaviors.
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Double-Sided Question
This question has two important functions.
It helps identify if you've modeled the negative behavior and gently corrects the child.
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Lead By Example
Lead by example, demonstrating good behavior.
Teach through gentle correction and guidance, not harsh punishment.
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"Your daughter gets mad, so she slams the door and screams. Your son makes himself a snack and leaves the kitchen a disaster for someone else to clean up. You hear them say something rude to a waiter. You see them write something offensive on social media.
Before you get mad yourself, before you condemn, just take them aside. Ask them, kindly, openly, a question that the strongman Mark Bell says he always asks his teenage kids: 'Hey, when have you seen me do that?'"
Ryan explains the merits of finding out the source of your kids' misbehavior on today's Daily Dad Podcast.
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