Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2698: What to Do When He Won't Commit by Dr. Diana Kirschner of Love In 90 Days on Commitment Issues and Dating Advice
Aug 18, 2025
Explore the emotional ups and downs of dating someone who won't commit. Discover expert strategies for setting boundaries and effectively communicating your needs. Learn about the importance of self-respect and taking decisive action. Gain insight into how showing the cost of losing you can motivate your partner. This episode empowers you to prioritize your happiness and encourages mature discussions around commitment.
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Know Your Worth And Limits
- You deserve a partner who prioritizes and commits to you; waiting endlessly erodes self-worth.
- There is a point when patience becomes wasted time and damages your sense of self.
Put Him On Probation
- If he's dated over three months and resists exclusivity, step back and put the relationship on probation.
- Deliver this message kindly but firmly so he has a chance to change or you can protect yourself.
How To Conduct The Probation Talk
- Begin the probationary talk kindly and state specific issues and the possibility of ending the relationship.
- Mention shared losses and ask him what actions he suggests to turn things around.