PsycHacks Episode 111: The fundamental law of attraction
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Mar 11, 2022 Exploring the fundamental law of attraction: wanting what we want, not what wants us. Understanding how less can be more in attracting others. Examples and insights on increasing interest by wanting less, not more.
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Fundamental Law of Attraction
- The fundamental law of attraction states that people desire what they want, not what desires them.
- This simple principle has significant implications for relationships.
Unwanted Attention
- Dr. Terriban encourages listeners to recall instances of unwanted attention.
- Increased efforts to gain affection often backfire, pushing the pursued person further away.
Reduce Pursuit
- Wanting someone less might make them want you more.
- While not guaranteed, decreasing your pursuit can sometimes increase another person's interest.