Power dynamics and abuse in the Capoeira community, particularly towards female students.
Importance of finding support outside the community and recognizing red flags in toxic relationships.
Deep dives
The speaker discusses the personal experience of being involved with a cult-like group in the Capoeira community.
The speaker shares their own journey of joining the Capoeira community and initially finding it to be a positive and enriching experience. However, as time went on, they began to notice signs of a toxic and manipulative environment, including an abuse of power by the leader. The speaker eventually made the decision to distance themselves from the community and take a break from Capoeira.
The danger of power dynamics in mentor-disciple relationships.
The speaker highlights the power dynamics present in the Capoeira community, particularly between leaders and female students. They discuss the rise of abuse and misconduct by leaders, as well as the challenges faced by victims in speaking out due to language barriers and the fear of not being believed. The importance of having a support system outside of the community and being aware of red flags in these relationships is emphasized.
Finding healing and recovery after leaving a toxic community.
The speaker shares their journey of healing and recovery after leaving the Capoeira community, including getting sober and reevaluating their own identity and self-worth. They emphasize the importance of finding new outlets and activities that promote self-care and self-discovery, as well as surrounding oneself with supportive friends and seeking therapy or counseling if needed.
The need for awareness and education in the Capoeira community.
The speaker discusses the need for increased awareness and education within the Capoeira community to address the issues of abuse and misconduct. They highlight the importance of creating safe and inclusive spaces for everyone, regardless of gender or background. The speaker also suggests promoting discussions and accountability within the community to prevent and address instances of power abuse and misconduct.
Two new listener stories! One from Shelly about her time in the Independent Baptist Movement under pastor Jack Hyles and the cult recovery work she is doing now, and one from Claire about the manipulation she experienced under her capoeira teacher.
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