Raising Good Humans S2 Ep 8: Listener Q and A With Dr. Aliza: Praise, Competitiveness and Family Code Words.
Aug 2, 2021
Explore the delicate balance of praising children's qualities over their appearance to boost self-esteem. Dive into inventive strategies for fostering cooperation among siblings while minimizing competition. Discover how to guide kids through loss with humor and empathy, turning setbacks into valuable lessons. Plus, learn about creative ways to document your child's milestones, along with the importance of regular healthcare visits in a post-pandemic world.
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Beware Overpraising Beauty
- Frequent praise of a child's physical beauty can unintentionally emphasize external appearance as a primary value.
- This focus may lead children to tie their self-worth to uncontrollable traits like looks.
Use Family Code Words
- Establish a family code word or body language signal to calmly stop inappropriate behavior in public.
- Involve children in choosing the word to make it a fun, motivational inside joke that prevents meltdowns.