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Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

Let's Talk About It w/ Anna Kai

Jul 13, 2023
01:06:59

Step into a world of dating wisdom, gorgeous! In this eye-opening and empowering episode, we're diving headfirst into the realm of relationships, self-discovery, and personal growth. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we navigate the complexities of love. 

Today, Violetta sits down with dating expert Anna Kai. Anna's insights transcend the conventional narratives surrounding dating and offer a deeper understanding of the barriers to authentic connections. With a keen eye for patterns and a compassionate approach, she sheds light on the common obstacles that prevent individuals from forging fulfilling relationships.

From recognizing red flags and embracing our self-worth to understanding the importance of effective communication, this episode is a guidebook for the modern woman seeking fulfillment in her relationships. We'll delve into the power of intuition, the significance of relationship labels, and the transformative journey of healing from childhood trauma. Along the way, we'll share personal stories of heartbreak and growth, debunk myths surrounding singlehood, and empower you to embrace new beginnings.

Get ready to rewrite the rules of dating, Besties, and step into a world of endless possibilities.    


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 01:48 The most common question you always get asked?
  • 04:05 We fight to make up not to break up
  • 05:31 Don’t ignore the red flags
  • 08:43 How do you stop being that girl that guys wanted to date but not commit to?
  • 11:52 Do you now like relationship labels?
  • 13:57 How would you know if someone is serious about you?
  • 17:16 5 things that can save you from ending up with the wrong guy
  • 18:26 All your friends and family hate him but you don’t see it
  • 20:03 Why do you keep other ‘platonic’ relationships around?
  • 22:32 Childhood trauma
  • 26:13 “Okay, I’m done chasing these guys.”
  • 28:44 You need to be dumped by the man you love to become the woman you deserved
  • 35:49 Leaving the man you love for the man you deserve
  • 43:03 Why do some women remain single?
  • 47:30 Every breakup is actually just the beginning of another chapter of your life
  • 52:41 He didn’t change, he just stopped pretending
  • 55:47 Why you should not accept his apology
  • 01:02:26 Every guy that dumped you, led you to the guy are with right now
  • 01:04:22 Best/worst advice you've gotten


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