Delve into the 4 stages of deep attraction in relationships, emphasizing chemistry, value, challenge, and connection. Learn about investing wisely and navigating authentic connections to foster lasting attractions.
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Deep attraction involves perceived value, challenge, and connection beyond physical chemistry.
Invest in relationships that reciprocate effort to maintain balance of value and challenge.
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Creating Deep Attraction Beyond Physical Connection
Deep attraction goes beyond physical chemistry and includes perceived value, perceived challenge, and connection. Perceived value involves others' perception of your worth, while perceived challenge requires not revealing all your value upfront. Investing in someone who reciprocates effort enhances perceived value, avoiding giving everything to those who don't respect it.
Components of Deep Attraction for Meaningful Relationships
Relationships deepen through chemistry, perceived value, perceived challenge, and connection. While physical chemistry sparks initial interest, true connection involves feeling understood and valued on a deeper level. Maintaining a balance of value and challenge prevents premature investment and fosters genuine connections based on mutual understanding and respect.
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Exploring the Four Stages of Deep Attraction in Relationships
When it comes to attraction, it's not enough to just have visual chemistry. Deep attraction - that keeps someone interested well beyond a few weeks - requires 4 different stages you need to progress through.
In this video I explain the 4 stages in a live coaching call and show how you should decide when to invest more or less in a budding relationship.
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