Episode 61: Mother Hunger with Kelly McDaniel

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Nov 5, 2021

Kelly McDaniel, a licensed professional counselor and author, dives deep into the concept of 'Mother Hunger'—the emotional wounds from maternal deprivation. She discusses how this affects women's self-worth, behaviors, and relationships. Kelly also emphasizes the significance of nurturing, protecting, and guiding in maternal roles, and how naming these issues helps in healing. She suggests therapeutic approaches for addressing complex traumas linked to mother hunger and shares practical steps for recovery, even when mothers are absent.

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Naming Enables Healing

'Mother hunger' names the legacy of maternal deprivation so healing can begin.
Kelly McDaniel says a precise name frees the body and brain to start recovery.

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Context Shapes Mothering

Social and cultural forces make maternal care harder, not just individual mothers' failures.
McDaniel connects patriarchy and intergenerational fear to reduced maternal support.

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Three Core Maternal Needs

McDaniel defines maternal care as three essentials: nurture, protect, guide.
Missing any of these developmental needs creates lasting relational impacts.

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Kelly McDaniel, LPC, NCC, CSAT, is a licensed professional counselor and author, specializing in treating women who struggle with relationships. As the first clinician to name an attachment injury as Mother Hunger, she explores the legacy of maternal deprivation. Her book 'Mother Hunger', speaks to the millions of women who suffer with a life-long emotional burden that adversely affects self-worth.

This podcast episode is Dawn Nickel and Kelly's live session of #MentalHealthMonday.

An endless ache to love and be loved. Periods of overeating or starving. A pattern of unstable moods and painful relationships.

Do any of these sound familiar?
Trauma psychotherapist and author Kelly McDaniel has seen these traits over and over in clients who feel trapped in cycles of harmful behaviors — and are unable to stop.

Many of us find ourselves stuck in unhealthy habits simply because we don't see a better way. With Mother Hunger, Kelly McDaniel helps women break the cycle of destructive behavior by taking a fresh look at childhood attachment injuries and their lasting impact.

In doing so, she de-stigmatizes the shame that can come with being under-mothered and misdiagnosed, and offers a healing path with powerful tools that include therapeutic interventions and lifestyle changes.

In this session of #MentalHealthMonday, Kelly McDaniel weaves her 30 years of research, clinical expertise, and a deep understanding of mothering myths, to explore 'Mother Hunger' and provide an opportunity to understand and heal the misunderstood root of poor eating patterns, chronic relationship disappointment, and distorted self-image.

Connect with Kelly at kellymcdanieltherapy.com and on Instagram: @kellymcdanieltherapy .

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