The Jefferson Fisher Podcast My Top 3 Argument Responses
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Sep 17, 2024 Ever struggle with defensiveness in arguments? Discover three phrases to calm tensions and foster productive discussions. Learn how small changes in your approach can transform conflicts. Explore effective communication techniques that promote understanding in high-stakes situations. Finally, tackle workplace challenges by connecting with colleagues and acknowledging their feelings, making every tough conversation a chance for growth.
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Top 3 Argument Responses
- Use phrases like "I agree", "I've learned", and "That's helpful" to de-escalate arguments.
- These responses make people feel understood and valued, reducing defensiveness.
Agree on the Topic
- When someone gets defensive, focus on agreeing with the overall topic, not the specific content.
- Saying "I agree this is worth discussing" can de-escalate tension and open communication.
Become a Student
- Position yourself as a student, eager to learn from the other person.
- Use phrases like "I've learned" to make them feel like they've taught you something valuable.
