The Daily Dad Think of Everything They Missed
Dec 10, 2020
The discussion explores the evolving roles of fathers, highlighting how past generations often missed crucial moments in their children's lives. It contrasts their absenteeism with today’s engaged parenting, emphasizing the importance of presence. The conversation encourages appreciation for the rich experiences fathers share with their kids now. It’s a reminder of how parenting has changed and the gifts that come with active participation.
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Absent Fathers
- Fathers were often absent during their children's births in the past, sometimes learning about it through letters.
- Some aristocratic families handed their children to nursemaids after birth, barely interacting with them until they were toddlers.
Shifting Expectations
- Expectations for fathers have significantly shifted over generations.
- Modern fathers are much more involved in their children's lives than previous generations.
Bowlby's Analogy
- John Bowlby joked about the absurdity of sending a seven-year-old dog away to boarding school.
- This analogy highlights the negative impact of parental detachment.