This podcast episode explores the complexities of the therapist-client relationship, shares personal experiences of discussing relationships in therapy, and delves into the challenges of transitioning from an objective to a subjective approach. The hosts also discuss the importance of creating a safe space for communication, reflect on their own professional insecurities, and explore the challenges of being misunderstood in therapy. They end with reflections on the episode and future plans.
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The 'Fly On The Wall' segment in the podcast has evolved to explore diverse perspectives and themes in therapy relationships.
Therapists should embrace and explore their own subjective experiences while recognizing its impact on the therapeutic relationship.
Therapists and clients should engage in co-regulated responsibility, acknowledging and addressing dynamics for growth and change.
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Overview of the podcast episode
In this podcast episode, the hosts discuss the special segment called 'Fly On The Wall' and how it has evolved over time. They explore the challenges of discussing their own practice and the therapeutic relationship on the podcast. The hosts also discuss the importance of subjective experiences in therapy and how these experiences can impact the therapeutic process. They reflect on the role of co-regulated responsibility in therapy and the vulnerability of bringing their own experiences into the therapeutic space. They also touch on the challenges of staying present and engaged with clients, especially when fatigued or overwhelmed.
The Evolution of 'Fly On The Wall'
The hosts reflect on the 'Fly On The Wall' segment introduced in the previous season and how the listeners have responded positively to it. They discuss how the segment has evolved from initially focusing on a single case over time to bringing in diverse perspectives and exploring themes that emerge across therapy relationships. The hosts also highlight the importance of sharing their own subjective experiences as therapists and the impact it can have on clients, as well as the challenges of communicating and communicating their experiences accurately in a therapeutic context.
The Role of Subjectivity in Therapy
The hosts delve into the significance of subjective experiences in therapy and the importance of embracing them as therapists. They discuss the challenges of navigating the line between objectivity and subjectivity in therapy and the tendency to objectify both themselves and their clients when discussing cases. The hosts emphasize the need to recognize and explore their own subjective experiences as therapists, as well as the impact of those experiences on the therapeutic relationship.
Co-Regulated Responsibility in Therapy
The hosts explore the concept of co-regulated responsibility in therapy, where both the therapist and the client take responsibility for the therapeutic process and the relationship. They discuss the importance of acknowledging and addressing the dynamics between the therapist and client, as well as the impact of their own subjectivity on the therapeutic space. The hosts highlight the vulnerability and courage required to engage in co-regulated responsibility and the potential for growth and change in therapy.
Navigating Fatigue and Overwhelm in Therapy
The hosts discuss the challenges of navigating fatigue and overwhelm as therapists, particularly when engaging in long client days or when dealing with personal issues. They reflect on the impact of their own energy levels on the therapeutic process and the potential for moments of disconnection or fatigue to affect the therapeutic relationship. The hosts emphasize the importance of self-awareness and self-care in managing fatigue and highlight the need to be honest and open with clients about personal limitations and subjective experiences.