Darius Classic | The 10-Second Rule

Aug 8, 2025

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Are you living in the present, or are you buried in the past and the future?

It is easy to lose sight of the present as we dwell on past mistakes or dream of future achievements. But what if the key to fulfillment lies in mastering each moment as it comes?

Today, I am flying solo to talk about a concept I call the 10-second rule–a simple yet powerful approach to living life in real-time. We will explore how embracing this idea can help you stop worrying about the past or obsessing over the future, allowing you to enjoy and grow in the now.

In this episode of The Greatness Machine, I will share how focusing on life in 10-second intervals has shifted my perspective, increased my presence, and even helped me handle relationships and conflicts more gracefully. I will also talk about the importance of making the most of every moment and finding pride in the journey and not just the destination.

Topics include:

The 10-second rule and its role for living in the moment
The downside of constantly dwelling on the past
The importance of dreaming without attachment to outcomes
Finding pride in the process, not just the results
Letting go of ego to nurture stronger relationships
How focusing on the present fosters personal growth
And other topics…

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