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Bait and Switch on Childcare
- OP paid the house down payment expecting a shared childcare arrangement and nanny support.
- Husband insists she must stay home full-time, refuses childcare chores, blaming her for a financial crisis.
Reject Partner's Body Shaming
- Gaslighting about insecurities is emotional abuse and damages self-esteem.
- Do not tolerate partners who mock or belittle your body, as children learn harmful behaviors from parents.
Support Comes Before Self-Grief
- Abandoning a partner after a devastating diagnosis reveals selfishness not supported by vows.
- Grieving future losses should wait until after providing empathetic support through crises.