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Episode #42: Jennifer Garvey Berger – The Necessary Terror of Our Growth

Oct 6, 2022
Jennifer Garvey Berger, co-founder and CEO of Cultivating Leadership and author of "Unleash Your Complexity Genius," dives into the intricate nature of adult development and coaching. She discusses the 'necessary terror' of growth, using metaphors of childbirth to illustrate transformation. The conversation touches on polished versus unpolished vulnerability, arguing that genuine connections emerge from the latter. Additionally, Jennifer shares her journey of communal living in France, highlighting the power of friendship in driving both personal and professional growth.
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Growth Is A Necessary, Terrifying Transition

  • Adult development explains growth as a disorganizing and reorganizing process where identity shifts qualitatively.
  • Jennifer experienced this personally during pregnancy and found the theory both explanatory and liberating.
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Comparing Exemplar 'Identity Cards' Misleads

  • People measure themselves against siloed exemplars across identity 'cards', which guarantees feeling inadequate.
  • Comparing partial lives to others' single-focus excellence distorts self-assessment and fuels shame.
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Complicated Vs Complex: Different Responses

  • Complicated problems need expertise and repeatable solutions, while complex systems are unpredictable and emergent.
  • We now need richer internal operating systems because social rules that once guided us no longer hold.
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