Explore the true essence of feeling seen both online and offline. Discover the stark difference between visibility and real connection, and how social media can distort our self-worth. Learn valuable strategies to cultivate authentic relationships in your work and personal life without relying on apps. Emphasizing the importance of reciprocal relationships, the discussion invites listeners to engage meaningfully with their communities. Perfect for anyone considering a break from digital platforms!
Feeling seen requires genuine connection and validation outside of social media, emphasizing the importance of authentic relationships over mere visibility.
The detrimental link between social media metrics and self-worth highlights the need for individuals to redefine feeling seen based on trust and support.
Deep dives
The Impact of Social Media on Feeling Seen
Feeling seen involves being recognized and validated in one's identity, emotions, and presence. Social media often provides avenues for this recognition through posts, likes, comments, and interactions, creating a loop where individuals can feel validated by expressing themselves and being acknowledged by others. However, this phenomenon can lead to a negative experience when users focus more on visibility and metrics rather than genuine connection. As individuals grapple with social comparison and the pressure of presenting a curated version of themselves online, they may experience feelings of invisibility, especially when their posts do not receive engagement.
Challenging the Metrics of Visibility
The strong correlation between social media visibility and self-worth can be particularly harmful, especially for business owners who often equate being seen with making money. This connection fosters an environment where individuals prioritize follower counts and likes over authentic relationships and meaningful engagements. As conversations around visibility shift, it becomes clear that a deeper understanding of feeling seen should focus on connection, trust, and support instead of mere metrics. Recognizing this distinction is essential for fostering a healthier relationship with self-esteem and identity outside of social media.
Finding Connection Beyond Social Media
To feel seen beyond social media, individuals are encouraged to seek alternative spaces that prioritize genuine relationships over flashy metrics. This includes joining online communities or less hierarchical platforms where connections can be formed based on shared interests and values rather than follower counts. Reflecting on personal definitions of feeling seen and identifying ways to replicate that outside social media is also crucial for fostering community. By reconnecting with authentic communication and support, individuals can create meaningful connections that nourish their sense of belonging and affirmation.
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Redefining Visibility: Exploring the Essence of Feeling Seen Off Social Media
In this BEST OF episode, we dive deep what it means to feel seen and how social media is messing with our sense of self-worth and community connection.
Tune in to hear me break down:
What it means to "feel seen" online & offline
Why visibility â connection (or $ales)
Ways to find connection in your work & life without being on the apps