The Daily Stoic The Lie That Keeps You Feeling Behind Every Single Day | Oliver Burkeman
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Jan 14, 2026 
Oliver Burkeman, a British journalist and author of 'Four Thousand Weeks', shares insights on overcoming the relentless pressure of productivity. He explains that the feeling of always being behind isn't a personal failure but a systemic issue. Burkeman critiques hustle culture and argues that urgency often exacerbates our anxiety. He emphasizes the importance of accepting limits, saying no to protect meaningful commitments, and integrating mindful practices like meditation and morning pages to cultivate presence and reduce stress.
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Intro With Book Passage
- Ryan reads a passage from Oliver's new book praising imperfectionism.
- He recommends Oliver's books Four Thousand Weeks and Meditations for Mortals.
From Cynic To Sincere Writer
- Ryan recounts meeting Oliver previously and notes Oliver's Guardian column and books.
- He praises Oliver's evolution from skeptic to sincere writer.
The Illusion Of Catching Up
- Feeling “behind” often comes from demanding you control infinity when you're finite.
- Oliver Burkeman says recognizing limits lets you argue with that anxious thought.
