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Karamo: How To Actually Do Self-Love

Jan 1, 2021
Karamo Brown, the culture expert from Netflix’s Queer Eye, shares his profound journey of self-love and acceptance. He reveals how embracing his name was a pivotal step in learning to love himself. Karamo discusses the challenges men face with self-love and the impact of his upbringing on his emotional growth. He reflects on the struggles of navigating public scrutiny and the importance of community support. Ultimately, he highlights how serving others can deepen self-appreciation, transforming the concept of self-love into a vital practice.
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ANECDOTE

Karamo's Early Life

  • Karamo's upbringing as a Black, gay man with immigrant parents in Texas led to feelings of exclusion.
  • He changed his name to avoid mockery, highlighting the impact of societal negativity on self-worth.
ADVICE

Practicing Self-Love

  • Counteract negative self-talk by practicing positive affirmations, even starting small, like complimenting an eyebrow.
  • Use these affirmations as a shield against external negativity, gradually building self-esteem.
INSIGHT

Compassion vs. Ego

  • Self-esteem is built by the words we habitually use with ourselves.
  • To avoid empty self-praise, focus on compassion, not ego, reminding yourself that self-love is for your own well-being.
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