#164:

Fellas, one of the more recurring questions we get from you is:

How can I improve my performance in the bedroom?

I’d like to offer you a new way of asking that question:

How can I improve my leadership in the bedroom?

Viewing sex as a “performance” often keeps you in your head, making you more self conscious and disconnected from your partner which in turn prevents intimacy.

So today, we’re talking about how to lead her in the bedroom…which, as you may imagine, often times starts outside of the bedroom.

Our guide for the discussion today is the unapologetic, vibrant powerhouse…Monica Yates.

Who is Monica Yates?

A women’s coach and community leader who guides hundreds of women to embody their feminine essence, reconnect to the power of their period and speak up for what they want in bed Monica is a huge advocate for men, and teaches women how to stop unconsciously emasculating men and rejecting their man’s attempts to lead in relationship
As a reformed emasculator herself, she teaches women how to receive more from their masculine partners so they can also give more to their man
She runs the Feminine as Fuck podcast and gives you a number of episodes at the end for you to listen to further your work

In this Episode

Why the seduction process starts well outside of the bedroom
Why you having the ability to communicate your emotions and desires allows her to give more of herself to you
The most important thing she needs from you when she’s having a melt down
How you setting powerful boundaries can be like aphrodisiacs to her
Why your inability to temporarily disconnect from work and life responsibilities and be with her is a major barrier to your sexual connection with her

Monica's Website: https://monicayates.com.au

Monica's Recommended Podcast Episodes for Men

Her Podcast: Feminine as Fuck

Episode #68: For my men: How to be in your masculine to guide her deeper into her feminine

Episode #73: Understanding Period Sex for men and women

Episode #78: Harbouring shame and toxic masculinity

Episode #81: How I know that you're holding onto anger (men & women)

Episode #114: FOR MEN: Cacao & Convos with Connor Beaton | Shadow work, sexual trauma, military men and using pain as your purpose

Episode #115: How to balance your masculine and feminine energies in both men AND women

Episode #117: Getting your man to lead in his masculine so that you can flow in your feminine

Small Doses with Amanda Seales

REPLAY: Side Effects of Radicalism (with Bree Newsome)

Remember Everything You Learn from Podcasts