

Listen Again — Esther Perel: Building Resilient Relationships
Feb 12, 2021
Esther Perel, a couples and family therapist renowned for her insights on relationships, shares valuable wisdom on building resilient bonds. She discusses the intricacies of love and desire during crises, emphasizing trust and communication. Perel highlights the pressures of modern romance and the importance of community support. The conversation also dives into the complexities of infidelity and how past relationship dynamics shape workplace interactions. Ultimately, she encourages understanding and growth for deeper connections, both at home and work.
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Perel's Parents
- Esther Perel's parents were Holocaust survivors who found each other due to shared trauma.
- Despite differing backgrounds, their shared loss and love for life created a strong bond.
Rise of Couples Therapy
- Couples therapy emerged because marriage changed from a no-exit enterprise to one with expectations.
- Leaving became an option, increasing demands for relationship fulfillment.
The Crisis of Desire
- Good sex often fades in long-term relationships despite enduring love.
- Modern love's emphasis on individual desire clashes with long-term intimacy.