EP264: What do you mean by “welcome the unknown?” A question from a listener
Aug 21, 2023
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In this podcast, the host explores the concept of embracing the unknown and letting go of the need to know. They discuss the limitations of knowledge and how it can restrict our understanding. They emphasize the freedom that comes with embracing the unknown and encourage listeners to question their beliefs and concepts.
Letting go of what we think we know opens us up to endless possibilities.
Embracing the unknown in relationships can lead to deeper connections and genuine acceptance.
Deep dives
Embracing the Unknown and Letting Go of What We Think We Know
In this podcast episode, Dr. Amy Johnson addresses a listener's question about 'welcoming the unknown.' She emphasizes the importance of not being attached to what we think we know because it limits our perspective. By letting go of our beliefs and concepts, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities. Johnson discusses the tendency to cling to knowledge as a source of safety and security, but highlights that this ultimately becomes a prison. Instead, she encourages embracing the mystery of life and recognizing that everything we think we are and know is transient. By being willing to be wrong and not knowing, we can find freedom and openness to new experiences.
The Pitfalls of Knowing in Relationships
The podcast also explores the pitfalls of seeking certainty and knowing in relationships. Dr. Johnson reflects on her own experiences of trying to understand others and the desire to know their thoughts and feelings. She points out that seeking to know everything about someone can lead to suffering instead of true connection. Instead, she suggests embracing the unknown in relationships and being okay with not having all the answers. By letting go of needing to know and being open to what arises in the present moment, we can experience deeper connections based on genuine curiosity and acceptance.
The Paradox of Welcoming the Unknown
Dr. Johnson acknowledges the paradox of embracing the unknown while also acknowledging that our minds constantly try to turn the unknown into something known. She encourages listeners to be aware of the mind's tendency to create concepts and labels and to be skeptical of these constructs. Rather than seeking concrete answers, she suggests cultivating a curiosity about the mystery of life and embracing the unknowable. By letting go of the pressure to know and embracing the present moment, we can experience a sense of freedom and open ourselves up to new possibilities.
A listener asked to hear more about “welcoming the unknown”. What does that mean? How do we do it? It seems that an important first step is looking at what we think we do know, and considering that perhaps knowing isn’t all the mind makes it out to be. Thinking we know feels safe…but is it?