Husband Material

Celebrating Outgrow Porn: Drew Boa Gets Interviewed

Aug 25, 2025
In this engaging discussion, Drew Boa, founder of Husband Material Ministries, is joined by Dr. Eddie Capparucci, an expert in treating problematic sexual behaviors. They delve into Drew's new book, Outgrow Porn, emphasizing the need to understand sexual fantasies and navigate emotional challenges. Listeners learn about the importance of 'urge surfing' and healing the inner child. They also discuss how storytelling fosters connection and accountability, while exploring emotional intimacy as a path to freedom from pornography.
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ANECDOTE

From Fetish To Inner Child Discovery

  • Drew Boa shares his sexual fetish focused on girls with braces and how it puzzled him for years.
  • Discovering the middle-school boy behind the fetish transformed his relationship with that part of himself.
INSIGHT

Power Over Porn Over Permanent Sobriety

  • Freedom isn't about guaranteed lifelong sobriety from porn; it's about reducing its power over you.
  • The goal is making porn feel less magical and more manageable, not promising a cure.
ADVICE

Process Emotions To Defuse Urges

  • When porn urges surface, look for underlying unprocessed emotions and pain driving them.
  • Process those emotions to desexualize the feelings and reduce porn's hold.
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