Gifted and Distractible with Julie Skolnick, MA, JD
Dec 13, 2023
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Julie Skolnick, founder of With Understanding Comes Calm, talks to us about her new book 'Gifted and Distractible'. Topics include what 2e means, Cycle for Success model, the overexcitability of gifted folks, asynchronous development, and how to advocate for ourselves and others.
Establishing a personal connection with children is crucial for effective implementation of strategies and addressing challenges in parenting gifted and distractible children.
The 'Cycle for Success' model, introduced by Julie Skolnick, emphasizes the interconnectedness of understanding, strategies, and advocacy in supporting 2E individuals and promoting their strengths and unique characteristics.
Deep dives
Importance of Personal Connection for Effective Parenting
The podcast episode emphasizes the significance of establishing a personal connection with children in order to effectively implement strategies and address challenges. The host highlights that even with the best strategies or knowledge, without a personal connection, it becomes difficult to engage kids and achieve desired outcomes. Conversely, when a strong connection exists, it becomes easier to implement strategies and tackle difficult situations. This personal connection not only helps to build trust and cooperation but also provides a platform to address anxiety and reduce overall stress at home. The anecdotal experience of a parent in the episode further highlights the positive impact of personal connection on the parent-child relationship.
Understanding Twice Exceptional (2E) Children and Giftedness
The podcast features an interview with Julie Skolnick, founder of an organization specializing in guiding parents of gifted and distractible children. Julie discusses her new book, 'Gifted and Distractable,' focusing on the concept of being twice exceptional or '2E.' She explains that 2E individuals are gifted and also have another characteristic, such as a learning difference. She highlights the complexity of understanding 2E individuals, particularly in terms of giftedness. Julie further explores concepts like asynchronous development, over-excitations, and the three-layer cake of giftedness. The interview sheds light on the challenges and unique characteristics of 2E individuals, promoting a strength-based approach and the importance of understanding and advocating for them.
The Cycle for Success Model: Understanding, Strategies, and Advocacy
During the podcast episode, Julie Skolnick introduces her 'Cycle for Success' model, which she uses to work with clients. The model emphasizes the interconnectedness of understanding, strategies, and advocacy. Understanding involves deep diving into concepts like 2E and learning differences, providing a foundation for effective strategies. Skolnick emphasizes the importance of crafting strategies tailored to the specific strengths and challenges of 2E individuals. The podcast also explores the advocacy aspect of the cycle, highlighting the need to advocate for understanding, acceptance, and support from others, as well as helping 2E individuals advocate for themselves. The model underscores the continuous nature of the cycle, with all three components influencing and complementing each other.
The ART of Advocacy: Acknowledge, Request, and Think
The podcast delves into the 'ART of Advocacy' model, which stands for Acknowledge, Request, and Think. This model provides a framework for effective advocacy on behalf of 2E individuals. Skolnick emphasizes the importance of acknowledging the efforts of teachers and professionals while showing gratitude. The model suggests making specific and actionable requests based on clearly defined goals. Skolnick urges individuals to ensure that the requests are measurable and have actionable steps that can be explained to a four-year-old. The episode highlights the significance of thoughtful and respectful advocacy, understanding the challenges educators face, and working collaboratively to support the needs of 2E individuals.
In today’s episode we talk to Julie Skolnick, founder of With Understanding Comes Calm.
Julie guides parents of gifted and distractible children, mentors 2e adults, trains educators and advises professionals on how to bring out the best in, and raise self-confidence of, the 2e people in their lives.
Julie talks to us about her new book, "Gifted and Distractible". She talks to us about what 2e means, her Cycle for Success model, the overexcitability of gifted folks, asynchronous development, and how to advocate for ourselves and others.