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1971: Love Bombing: 10 Signs of Over-the-Top Love by Cindy Lamothe with Healthline on Relationship Red Flags

Nov 21, 2023
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Cindy Lamothe, a Healthline contributor, discusses love bombing in relationships and the signs to look out for. Love bombing is a manipulative tactic used by narcissists to gain trust. It involves extravagant gifts and constant compliments. Lamothe explains how to identify manipulative tactics employed by love bombers and emphasizes the importance of staying attuned to your intuition.
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Quick takeaways

  • Love bombing is a manipulation technique where someone overwhelms you with affection and admiration, using tactics like lavish gifts and constant communication to gain control.
  • Love bombing can also be a result of anxious relationship attachment, a stage that people often go through early in dating or after a difficult breakup, so it's important to open a conversation about boundaries and compromise rather than immediately labeling someone as a love bomber.

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Love Bombing: Manipulative Technique or Genuine Affection?

Love bombing is a manipulation technique where someone overwhelms you with affection and admiration. This tactic is often used to gain control over you and win your trust. Signs of love bombing include lavish gifts, incessant compliments, constant communication, disregard for boundaries, and pressuring for commitment. While these signs may not always indicate toxic behavior, it is important to listen to your intuition and consider the larger context of the person's behavior. Real relationships take time to develop, and it's crucial to establish and communicate boundaries.

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